We took the car into the shop yesterday. The guy told us that it might be totaled, since the damage was extensive and might cost more than the car was worth. I spent some time on the Kelley Blue Book website finding out how much our little car was worth.
J e-mailed me later in the day that our car is apparently worth more than anyone thought, and that it was not even close to totaled. The shop will start ordering parts ASAP, and our little Subaru should be back to us by the end of the month.
Hurray for only one car payment at a time!